The point of this site is to raise awareness of what is happening to teens who have been scarred by sexual abuse at such an early age. Our girl was 3. She explicitly described what her "Daddy does to me!" The inappropriate behaviors and sexual tendencies they demonstrate as they enter puberty. The sexual behaviors were uncomfortable to see from a child 5-6-7 years old. The multiple personality disorders and trauma's that arise from such abuse and what it is like living with a child hurt this way. Even though they are far removed from the abuse and protected for years unharmed, they still have a way of turning south though they are in the best of families.
The point also is to imagine you, yourself of being innocent and placed in prison for something you did not do. Especially if labeled a child sex abuser. To be falsely accused and not having the spare $$$ of $100,000(PLUS!) to be properly defended. Watching the system fail to uncover the truth. Rather watching the system wildly squash a happy and innocent family because they can and of course everyone hates a real child abuser! To become a "fall guy" for someone else's sins is hard to digest. To believe the truth will come out and watch the STATE do everything to BLOCK the truth from coming out is incomprehensible. For the State to acknowledge the graveness of the child's lies and personality disorders from her prior abuse would cause them to be wrong about this story. SO, They simply shun the determined mother (who loved and protected her child) as if she was absent from the whole new experience while alledging step dad doing such far fetched deeds. No proof. No DNA. Coached, mixed up, snowballing stories. Slammed by a system with all the money to do so and never helping the sick girl with her many problems she is not in control of. MOM begged in juvenile court to have daughter placed in rehab/camp for children with these issues. Mom even wrote DR. PHIL months before this story broke to help find somewhere that could help her daughter in her manipulative issues popping up. CPS instead enabled her dysfunction and dumps her out of their system anyway they can. They did not know WHAT to do with her and her patterns of sabatoging her home life. That is, they dump her into the hands of the very father she accused at age 3. He who by choice, remained completely absent from her for 13 years. Not a peep out of him! Why silent, if he did not do it? He did not work it out with the requirements to see her and visit her EVER! Only he can answer that. And so we hear he has a big exuse now, he's a minister?! Let's ALL do a polygraph together as a family! So every single person in this psychodrama can be accountable for their part.
We believe that a polygraph test should be mandatory for all involved. Every person in our story who played a part. The accusers. The accused. At best some dishonest and lying CPS/Detectives should initiate this before taking the ball and running with it in the future. Then they wouldn't have to frame innocent folks! This could have saved the STATE a million $$. What about these criminal cases where it is not true? There are many people in prison who are innocent so we find out now. The Innocence Project and others have these stories in the news all the time now setting the prisoners free after years of being in prison due to a sham trial. All because of a failure to investigate, a lousy defense and zealous prosecutors who need to meet their quota with a big case and a WIN for their resume.
We stand fast for the truth to surface with the HOPE our story can touch the world and change lives and legislation someday. Mostly we stand for the truth to come forth so that the sick may be healed. For help to come for the lost and hurting in our story. For relationships to be restored in wholeness and truth and love. Vindication for the wrongfully accused. That is the point. That is why we share our story here with the world. The story never made known to the "jury"!!
2 comments:
I just read through your blog and I am confused. Maybe you could clarify this situation for me. A young girl was molested by her biological father at age three. The little girl told people of the abuse? Her mother left town with the little girl and tried to get on with her life. When the girl was a teen she had a step-dad that she falsely accused of sex abuse? Now that step-dad is in prison because of those allegations? You are saying that there wasn't an criminal investigation into the girls claims? Do I have this story straight? What is going on?
You have it all correct I'm afraid. Once the CPS system steps in it becomes a NAZI experience and they refuse to get behind the truth or childs best interest. They are in bed with detectives and prosecutors and then public defenders. Where do they all get their paycheck from? Once they step in it is full throttle until they WIN> The child manipulates and lies to therapists and tells everyone whatever they want to hear. WHY? because she is a traumatized from the cruelty done to her so young. They ignored all the Moms documentation and testimony at the onset of the girls claims and strong armed Mom who continued to stand and plead for the truth and proper help for her girl up until they pursued framing the step dad with their trumped up version that simply did not happen. A pitiful defense did not defend or object or hire an investigator or expert witness to combat the coercion in court. They blocked everything that would show her motive and intent and illness. It was a nightmare to all who witnessed how it played out. None of the witnesses lined up were able to speak their piece who knew the girls behavior since 3! Defense attorney forgot to ask the key questions! All along Mom pleaded for the juvenile court to place her in institutional rehab or camp for kids with these deep trauma's from early sexual abuse instead of the FOSTER care at her best friends house where she was free to party and get addicted to drugs and then sex! It was a bogus, trumped up deal from the get go. We were both willing to do a polygraph as soon as daughter did one first. Never happened. For 9 months the detectives found nothing on computers or anywhere that would link step Dad to pedaphile activity. Because he is NOT! Then minutes after a juvenile court hearing where Mom continues her stance for the truth about her daughters behaviors they say they find something interesting on computer. They arrest him. The interesting photo's were revealed no sooner than one hour before trial. They did NOT charge him with pocessing those photos.(because they were planted 65 pictures!) They were also found on the computer that was at a mechanic shop for one year. Not at home! All placed at the same time of day around noon. All this conflicts with childs storytelling making it impossible for her story to be true. Its just crazy communism right here in America funded by our tax dollars! Sickening really. To better understand children of early sexual abuse and at what lengths they will go to to get their way out of their safety net to self destruct please read the book:
COMEBACK by www.claireandmia.com
it is a parallel with our experience to the details. Also it gives me hope for our story to come full circle. There is hope my girl can get the help she needs before she slays other lives to manipulate what she wants. It is a mother's love to not rest until it is so. Thanks for writing.
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