Sunday, February 18, 2007

Children who are out of Control on a mission to defy you at all cost:

No parent should walk this road alone. They will kill you if they can!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Parents Network parenting children with Reactive Attachment Disorder!

CPS only intends to put the accused in jail for life to show the mom their coercive power for her not believing the child. Today in America, this could happen to you!

Are you parenting a troubled child with an insecure attachment disorder?

http://www.focusas.com/Howisyourchild.html

Does your child meet the criteria for symptoms of Reactive Attachment Disorder?

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_bonding_reactive_attachment_disorder.htm

Monday, February 12, 2007

Sex, Drugs and Alcohol! Inspires our Youth!

Did you know that the nicest kids are turning to porn stars and drug and alcohol addiction to mimic as their heroes? Did you know that getting "wasted"or getting "faded" and playing with zippers, being a SLUT and posing nastily on MYSPACE is the norm for our teenage girls these days? Using the "F" word in every sentence is common on MYSPACE? Describing bisexual experiences are fun to talk about to bait the boys! Yes, this could be what your kids are doing on the computer. Internet porn is the biggest addiction breaking into our society and the kids all over are doing it. Do you know how determined your kids are in participating with other kids like this? You better find out now!!

Did you know your girls maybe posing flashing their breasts for their cell phone camera to get attention or when they leave your house? Did you know your 16 year old girls are going in bars in hopes to go "home" with some new guy they meet that night? Think again if you don't believe this could be your kids. Some kids will say or do anything to do this. They will lie and manipulate you for the freedom. To be able to "go out" with their friends that do!



Teens in some FOSTER CARE today get to do all this and more. So, it's no wonder they may do anything to get out of your house to have some FUN! God forbid this happens in your home town!


Help for parenting teens:

http://www.focusas.com/Parenting.html


FYI******HOW TO SPOT A LIAR when they are LYING!!!
What is scary is when they are so good they can believe their own lie! That = sociopath!

Getting lied to, and then buying into it, is almost always a bad thing. (Sometimes it’s life and death.) Really good liars are everywhere, but they can’t control what they don’t know they’re doing. Here’s some stuff that most people will automatically do when weaving a yarn.

If the liar actually believes they are lying, (and that it is wrong!) then watch for negative self evaluation gestures. These are usually touching of the nose or ears. Yes it sounds silly. Yes, we almost all do it. No, we don’t realize it.

Eye contact almost always weakens during the actually telling of the lie. Except if someone’s doing that “look in my eyes and tell me” thing. In which case eye contact is mandatory.

Most liars tell lies “palms down”. It’s a subconscious move that is defensive and deceptive. Showing someone your palms makes you feel vulnerable.

Most liars are also slouchers. Our backs naturally straighten when we are proud and confident. Liars faking confidence, are rarely either.

Humans eyes generally move up and to left if their brain is doing visual or audio construction. They will generally move to the upper right when doing recall. Just remember: Liars go Left, the Righteous go Right.

None of these mannerisms on their own is a solid lock. But if you get someone presenting 3 or 4 of them, they’re selling you something you shouldn’t be buying.

For more details on liars body language:

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/peerpressure/a/blliarliar.htm

Saturday, February 3, 2007

The "Pitfalls" of Step Parenting and "Blended" Families:



This could be any family..... consider a nice looking blend of histories like yours. Two paths crossing with baggage we know not the extent of until we collide our lives together! We can make it because we love each other! Sound familiar?

Each person in the mix brings in their own set of emotional injuries that are not our fault. How much pain they bring into the union may not be apparent at first. Too bad there is not a list of red flags handed to us when we sign the marriage license!

Some common pitfalls in blending families:



  • We need a bigger car! (true)


  • We need a bigger house! (true)


  • Everyone needs their own TV set! (true)


  • Some children may stop at nothing to sabatoge the new marriage relationship! (true)


  • Some children will lie about the step parent and get them put in jail alledging sexual abuse! (nahhh...not my kids.....WRONG....it's TRUE...this can happen to you!)




Read on..... HELP! PLAN AHEAD FOR BLENDED FAMILIES!!!!!!!

http://www.focusas.com/Stepfamily.html