Violating and injuring the soul of another and done by someone you'd truly trust to protect you from harm is betrayal of the worst kind. The younger the child (and the closer the offending family member) is brutally damaging to the person for life. Some victims never recover without help. Interestingly, there is often some horrific event in the past life of criminals. There is something that causes a person to be damaged or one that evolves into sociopathic or psychotic, delusional behaviors. Multiple personality disorders, crippling learning disabilities or the art of compulsive lying and manipulation. Something is at the root of the strange oppositional and defiant behavior. Guilt and shame can drive one into substance abuse or self mutilation.Sometimes it's a flashback from post traumatic stress disorder. Why, soldiers from Vietnam can tell you they have been having flashbacks for 30 years after being home from the battle fields. A color, a smell, a sound or just looking through a window can set someone off into a freak out. Or perhaps the odd behavior could be hereditary.
Stealing the innocence of a trusting child is the most vile thing a human being can do to another. Trouble is folks, it happens all the time. Adults who are riddled with emotional issues from childhood abuse are now able to confess the roots of their injuries and pain in support groups. Adult children of sexual abuse are getting help for their life long struggles and disabilities and character defects they can trace back to that buried event.
There is hope, help and healing if the person can get into the right hands. God sees everything. He loves us, each one.....
http://www.fathersloveletter.com/fllpreviewlarge.html
Help for the female sex addict:http://www.celebraterecovery.com/SmallGroups/sa_Women.shtml
History of abuse recovery:
http://www.celebraterecovery.com/SmallGroups/sex.shtml
Help for the razor cutters aka: self mutilation
http://www.solutionsonvideo.com/videos/PA/townsendA1275.htm
Unfortunately, what is often the case and far too often an oversight today is that these poor victims of severe sexual abuse grow up to be perpetrators themselves. We know this is true. But it is not noticed by our authorities who should be able to spot it right away. Our childhood victims have a lifetime to develop manipulative tendencies. They have a scary need and curiosity about sexual things far to early and often become sex addicts. Always trying to scratch that itch they learned far to young. In the case of this small town story, our little sweetheart grew into her teens with such a need to bust out into life sexually at any cost. Her hunger was overwhelming and she would say anything to get her way to do the things she wanted to do. Lie, cheat and steal, throw a man in jail to live her life she now chose. She learned from society how to forsake her 'over protective' family that held her back and sheltered her from the lifestyle she was itching to experience at age 14. She fumbled around with the right things to say to put her step dad in jail. Teens or children don't have to take a polygraph test we're told. So she rips her faithful, devoted mothers heart out, destroys her family and off she goes to play, play, play, do drugs and drink alcohol freely, have sex as she pleases...with no remorse of the destruction in her wake! Her mission for unsupervised freedom succeeds! She craftily cried the victim and all new spectators fell into her story. Simply believing her story was all it took for her. The wounded child has now crossed over into becoming the Perpetrator! Life now has become to her a game to manipulate the "system" and her foster world. UGgg.
And today the new victim of the child prepetrator is GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT IN AMERICA! How does a child turn out this way?
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