Merry Christmas! We pray that you each, get "everything" you need!

As this season approaches we are both so grateful for all the LOVE and support and your prayers. We can know and feel we are loved! Thank you to each who have been a part of our difficult experience and have given to us in ways we can never repay. We can only PASS IT FORWARD. We know that God is in control. We experience God's grace and kindness through acts of goodness. WE believe and take great pains to say we hope that OUR past will NOT become someone elses future. I heard this recently and find it a profound impact which describes my journey in life thus far. In fact, it is a great question to ask ourselves as a personal inventory of sorts. Ask yourself this as you ring in the New YEAR, "Has my past affected someone elses future?" Perhaps a thing that happened in my past (a long time ago)has had a negative influence on me and now to someone elses future who is totally unaware of the trauma's done to my soul. If they should push my buttons, they can make me act out and hurt an innocent bystander or whoever happens to be close to me now! This is what they call "projecting." We all do it to some degree I expect. This is God showing us what we still have to work on in ourselves. All I know is I can turn over to GOD all that is out of my power to control. I can live my days continually doing goodness and kind deeds in secret to others just like Saint Nicholas. He is a good role model for us to emulate all the year long! God's Blessing to each and everyone. You know who you are! And to my girls and grandchildren though we have been separated by injustice, I have never stopped loving you and miss you very much.

To Be as SICK as your Secrets??? What good is in that?

"I didn't cause it. I can't change it. I can't control it."--but we can't help but wonder:

When will everyone start telling the truth? Is staying in FEAR stronger than the need for obtaining peace? Pain, suffering and agony are the only the result from betrayal and lies. We are only for the journey toward truth and healing and healing and truth. We can not have one without the other. Secrets and lies trying to be kept a secret is like trying to hold a ball under water. We struggle and struggle to keep the truth out of site but eventually the ball pops up out of the water for all to see. It's time to walk through a new door....

Today we ponder the poem below:

Sick As Secrets

byVirjinja

You're only as sick as your secrets

The things you keep inside

The stories so awful, so hurtful ~ YOU think

The ones you choose to hide

The feelings you wall off and keep at bay

The past you regret each and every day

The memories you wish would never be

The stuff you hope no one ever sees

You're only as sick as your secrets

The longer you hide them you'll find

They'll rob you of joy and sanity

They'll drive you right out of your mind

They'll keep you from living life to the full

They'll tug at your heart, push and pull

You apart ~ like a puzzle, piece by piece

Turning others away 'cause your thinkin' stinks

You're only as sick as your secrets

And make no mistake, my friend

When you dig them up and throw them away

Your heart will unburden and in the end

You'll be free of guilt, shame and false pride

The Lord will protect you and give new life

You're only as sick as your secrets

Aren't you tired of being sick?

Then turn them over to God right now

Do it this moment... hurry, be quick

He already knows everything you hide

He's just waiting for you to stop living the lie

That your secrets define you ~ that they're who you are

That's the work of the devil and it's so far

From the Truth ~ give it up and throw it away

Walk in the Light... today is the day

You're no longer sick ~ you've no secrets to hide

Give it to God... there's the key to life

Yes, you're only as sick as your secrets

But that's not you...anymore.

http://www.cyberrecovery.net/forums/showthread.php?t=14806

Today we give thanks. Our hearts and lives have been laid bare and vulnerable to the pursuit of God's truth. We are thankful that what the devil has meant for evil God can turn for good. We still believe that God can do miracles for justice and truth and healing and restoration.

"I didn't cause it. I can't change it. I can't control it."-- I guess the rest is not my business to know right now!

10 things to know about lying:

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/factsheetsforteens/a/10thingslies.htm

Hope, Help and Healing for the broken hearts...

Just as the sea is faithful to keep coming back to shore...wave after wave it does its magic and after the tide pulls back there are treasures uncovered. I'm thinking of sea glass. Its is so soft and beautiful and translucent holding it up to the suns light but, at first it was just a piece of broken glass, very sharp and dangerous and able to cut deep in an instant. This is our proof that God can take ALL things and turn them for something good for those who belong to Christ Jesus and believe.

The next step is Forgiveness. Without it God cannot do the miracles in the other's lives! Turning over our excruciating pain and hurt from cruel betrayals and lies is not easy but necessary because we are not in charge, GOD IS! He has always had a higher plan than what we can see at the moment. Our purpose is to trust and obey and stay out of His way in the healing of someone else's wayward soul.....ours is forgiveness to ALL those who have caused us harm and to pray without ceasing. Those who have hurt us do cry out for their own FORGIVENESS so they can be set free from their own sin, so they can find grace and peace. YES! So be it... Some in our story are easier to forgive than others.....

Listen to Bob Carlisle sing FORGIVENESS:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRZq7Lzz8bE

How do we forgive evil doers with unrepentive hearts? Our struggle is huge but we know if we don't forgive them then our Heavenly Father cannot forgive us for our trespasses.... so we try...but in this process

WE FALL DOWN, WE GET UP:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXlfELlcdRM&NR=1

Our's is a LOVE of a lifetime hard hit by terrorists!

Some people only dream of a love, devoted and true like ours. We, so well suited for each other. A commitment to honor, cherish, serve and protect that love against the fiery darts of the enemy. Love is patient and kind, never irritable touchy or rude, never demands its own way and believes the best of one another and love is long suffering and neither height nor depth nor principalities or powers shall separate the true and pure bond of God's love. We were a comitted team to be a blessing and support to our children and grandchildren. We were a "safe place to land!" The world is often jealous of this kind of devotion. Sure, we are out numbered in this fight, it seems, but we will continue to stand for what is right. We stand united always for healing and truth and righteousness to prevail. When we know not what else to do we will still be standing for healing and truth or truth and healing. What the devil has meant for evil GOD will turn for good and we believe and have hope that HE will touch the world with a painful story that can bring HIM all the glory. We can never hide the evil that has been done to place an innocent man in prison but rather our stance has been to expose it and the result has been unfavorable to us for now. But we know God owns the cattle on a thousand hills and has planted the sun and the moon and stars in the sky. God is more than able to perfect that which concerns us for His holy will to be done. Restoration and healing to a family shattered by terrorist acts is certainly not too hard for God! We do ask for your continued prayers...........

Constitutional Rights Violated?

Who will uphold the rights of the wrongfully accused in America when the slaughter of innocent lives is led by those abusing their powers???? Guilty until proven innocent has rallied in our courts and by those state paid officials who are immune to a moral reality but instead devoted to rigging and manipulating jury's. Making a vicious game to only WIN cases for a 'newspaper article' or a promotion or kickback $$$$ holding no regard for the truth, for justice or upholding the American way our forefathers fought to implement. The fact is, they don't care about doing what is right, they are just addicted to power and only want to WIN.

Today we dedicate this post specifically to those who deliberately and deceitfully contributed to the demise of our wrongful accusation and who also knew better in our incomprehensible miscarriage of justice:

Our appointed CPS caseworker who habitually turned a blind eye to the details leading to the truth about our accusers and the accused. This CPS dept never did there own investigation and did only harm to our child. Never got her proper help or therapy. They withheld all information, lies and reports from the accused and ran from anything we or other witnesses had to say about what was really going on. They lied about almost everything. They assisted placing the 14 yr old daughter in a unsuitable home where she could freely party and get drug addicted, freely become sexually active with no boundaries. They reunite her and drop her off to live with her real molester who was only allowed supervised visits for 13 years and thus had chose not to contact her at all until this arrangement. After 4 months she ran away from there too. Today, at 17 she is in a home of her own 1st choice where she could freely drop out of high school along with the other teen girls in the house who were allowed to drop out as well.. Good one Rita! It is all about you who could have handled this differently.

The foolish, "over" zealous, new detective that led the SWAT team to break down our door and holding guns to our heads, faces on the floor shouting CONFESS, CONFESS as our first contact! Ransacking our house finding nothing to back up there claims. Nothing!!!! Yet, after seizing 4 computers they wait 9 months then finding 1 weird (not illegal!) old picture on a computer which they orchestrate a case upon for an arrest. They planted some of their own images/manipulated evidence to go with it that was not included in the charges. Always withholding these images from the defense....until 1 hour before trial. Only they planted them on the wrong computer solely to manipulate the jury! Never mind that the teen girls were seductively swooning over the big tall detective in hopes that he would be charmed by them as well! What did he get out of this? His name in the paper too? Yes.

Prosecutor who was a (rumored)molested child herself hellbent on seeing another man burn regardless of the fact he is innocent. She acting unprofessional and manipulating the case and jury to only WIN. Fabricating a drama of her own making that she 'wanted it to be' instead of the truth itself. All the while intending to use this case to catapult her very young career!

The shameful Judge who allowed the prosecutorial misconduct in the courtroom and blocked all motions, testimony and evidence for the real truth to come out for the jury to know and clearly who was biased for the prosecution rather than the justice and the truth.

Exactly WHO hand picked the pool for this jury?? And carefully planning to send them to deliberate after a 4 day trial on a friday afternoon at 4 pm so they delivered the verdict in 1 hour to avoid coming back on Monday!!!!

And exactly who bought off our defense attorney to fumble up what questions to ask each witness or to not cross examine accusers or meet with his client prior to trial, nor hiring his own investigator or expert witness etc etc etc????!!!!! Why was he so unprepared? Was it an Alzheimer act or not enough retainer money?

This is the caliber of people that just don't care who are ruining lives in America. To each of you:

You are gonna lose! Someday you will lose because you cannot carry that much contempt without it becoming malignant until one day you will be all alone in a room full of shadows and all you are going to have is the memory of all those people whose lives you have destroyed.

Have hands smeared with innocent blood to take with you where you will go from here?

For more information about the deadly game of jury manipulation see the insightful John Grisham movie Runaway Jury which that quote is found and gave us another epiphany moment! It is indeed more real than we realize! We have lived it on a front row seat!

Listen to Dr. Rose briefly describe our story:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nY80R4Wp5M

Bad things happen to good people!

We are not alone in history when this kind of betrayal thing happens. It rains on the just and the unjust! Who knows which way the tree will fall? Who knew when the story telling of a rebellious teen would sever relationships like a death and destroy innocent lives and leave a trail of wounded? You know life is short and we never know when it will be ended abruptly. The only thing that really matters is if you were to die today, would you be ready to face God with the choices you have made? Will there be things left unsaid with the people in your life? And what kind of legacy will your life have left behind? Will you hear the words, "Well done my good and faithful servant" or will it be "I never knew you"???

Pastor Greg Laurie of Harvest just lost his son in a car accident last week while driving to church. He was a handsome 33 year old married man with a wife, child and another baby on the way. He loved the Lord and is in heaven today. His family's hearts are broken but hear Greg share only 3 days after getting that horrible news about his son: "I Still believe" he says

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff5o8yRmPHc

Are you ready to walk the path toward the light?

No matter what, "We still believe!"

Beauty for ashes....

Planting seeds (or ugly old bulbs!) that are nurtured in love, in time, will produce something wonderful for the whole world to enjoy! It's bound to happen, something good when all the elements of God's handiwork is complete. It's like the truth, it will come forth like a light beam shining into the darkest night! Watch and see....God only "allows" things to happen in our lives for a reason! We must be patient and know HE see's everything and trust in HIS timing, not ours.

Re-Visiting the Path of Destruction?

As we take a stroll down memory lane, at the ocean side, it is unnerving to realize the impact of devastation that has occurred due to one person's sins done to another in a dark, secret place so many years ago. To see how many "other" lives that have been harmed in addition to the victim as the result of the sick violation done to the innocent child (as a 3 year old) and the waves of hurt that just keep rolling in, affecting so many people in so many ways. Standing before God someday will be very interesting. To think "He" does not notice the deeds done when no one else can see......and to have the trickle down affect from it be clear and the horror of it be made plain. Selah. Someone has said once, " we are as sick as our secrets. "

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqhEWpGVJSs&feature=related

Do visit 1 COR 4:2-5 and Eccl 12:13,14 and Matt 12:33-36 and Prov 6:16-19....Everyone in our saga will be measured by the same stick, of this we can be sure!

State Falsely accuses 3,000 of child abuse!

It could be a beautiful "season of your life" and then the dark evil cloud of injustice obliterates innocent families via CPS and over zealous prosecutors!

This is just ONE state!!!!!! Read on and WELCOME to America!
Who said recently "the the innocent don't end up in prison for no reason????"

State falsely accuses 3,000 of child abuse
Investigators have 'power of God,' can ruin life with stroke of pen!

Posted: May 15, 200811:45 pm Eastern© 2008 WorldNetDaily

The Illinois Department of Children and Family Services erroneously labeled 3,051 innocent people as child abusers by placing them on the state's official list.
According to a Belleville News-Democrat investigation, 11,473 people have appealed to strike their names from the state record. The list has a 27 percent error rate of parents falsely accused of abuse. Once on the list, people are required to remain there for a minimum of five years.
"They're not all bad, there are good ones," Nick Brunstein reportedly said of state child abuse investigators, "but the bad ones have the power of God, and with the stroke of a pen they can ruin your life."
Brunstein is a former foster parent who won his 2-year fight against DCFS to clear his name after his 11-year-old foster daughter, diagnosed with schizophrenic and bipolar disorder, accused him and his wife, Judi, of physical and emotional abuse. The girl claimed the family harmed her by requiring the children to do chores and homework.
The Brunsteins lost $20,000 in lawyer fees, and three daughters they had planned to adopt, ages 2, 5 and 11, were permanently removed from their custody.


The Belleville newspaper reported more than 80,000 people were placed on the State Central Register from Jan. 1, 2002, through Aug. 1, 2007. Another 1,426 appeals have been denied, 3,178 have been discarded or withdrawn by the accused, 3,289 have been closed or dismissed though administrative processes, and 529 appeals were pending.
A DCFS spokesman, Kendall Marlowe, said errors can be made, but that most of the people on the child abuse list are legitimately placed there.
"A lot of what happens at these hearings is it becomes a legal process, not ... whether it happened or not, but whether enough evidence is presented," Meryl Paniak, the DCFS' chief administrative law judge told the paper. "So does that mean some people are probably unfounded and shouldn't be? Yes. And it's the same thing with some who are indicated and probably shouldn't be."
However, attorneys who represent parents at appeals hearings have called child abuse investigations flawed and unreliable. In 2006, the News-Democrat reported that 53 children died while they were under DCFS' care following sloppy investigations by caseworkers.

This is exactly how it played out in our story. We are NOT alone in this STATE induced coercive nightmare. Or from the words of a girl with more diagnosis' covered up by the scandal of our STATE! We are paying the price for the one man who got away with it! OUR CPS dept admitted to the juvenile Judge in court that they NEVER did an investigation after 9 months into the case! They just pursued a story from a girl with 5 diagnosed mental conditions ....... never checking it out!
Way to go! CPS destroying innocent lives......

But to my little girls who Mommy loves always in addition to "each" of my grandchildren.....You are LOVED by us both!!!!!! Listen :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYm4aDxJ-0A

Listen to Martina McBride singing - ANYWAY

This song is the reflection of a mother's love, years of energy and devotion poured into the hearts and lives of her children who at anytime can walk away as if you were never there. But this Mom will always love them anyway! She will dream of goodness, righteousness and truth to prevail on their behalf. She will dream of healing and restoration for their souls always......and will continue to be loyal and pray, never ceasing.

Why did she run away again????

We never know what is stirring beneath the surface. Things aren't always as they seem on the top are they? Which leads us to the big question now: Why did our darling girl run away from her real father after just 4 months in his home? Did she remember everything he did to her as a toddler or did she just want to bust out of the boundaries again to run with the girls who get to go wild and free where there are no rules back at her big sisters house? Which is it?

Mary Ann do tell why she ran.......big sister's house after all was her original destination plan when she ran from us in Sep 05 but it back fired on her. It was not a healthy place to be. Maybe CPS won't care anymore where she goes because they cannot control that girl. But obviously, now nor could daddy OR mommy! This is why she needs the proper help for her emotional disorders but no body would listen to mommy would they????

Listen now to "Bye Bye" by Mariah Carey

Here is a song we dedicate to the those hurting and all lost relationships that has become the steep cost from wrongful accusations.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_obJPJUWHK0&feature=related

What's the POINT?

The point of this site is to raise awareness of what is happening to teens who have been scarred by sexual abuse at such an early age. Our girl was 3. She explicitly described what her "Daddy does to me!" The inappropriate behaviors and sexual tendencies they demonstrate as they enter puberty. The sexual behaviors were uncomfortable to see from a child 5-6-7 years old. The multiple personality disorders and trauma's that arise from such abuse and what it is like living with a child hurt this way. Even though they are far removed from the abuse and protected for years unharmed, they still have a way of turning south though they are in the best of families.

The point also is to imagine you, yourself of being innocent and placed in prison for something you did not do. Especially if labeled a child sex abuser. To be falsely accused and not having the spare $$$ of $100,000(PLUS!) to be properly defended. Watching the system fail to uncover the truth. Rather watching the system wildly squash a happy and innocent family because they can and of course everyone hates a real child abuser! To become a "fall guy" for someone else's sins is hard to digest. To believe the truth will come out and watch the STATE do everything to BLOCK the truth from coming out is incomprehensible. For the State to acknowledge the graveness of the child's lies and personality disorders from her prior abuse would cause them to be wrong about this story. SO, They simply shun the determined mother (who loved and protected her child) as if she was absent from the whole new experience while alledging step dad doing such far fetched deeds. No proof. No DNA. Coached, mixed up, snowballing stories. Slammed by a system with all the money to do so and never helping the sick girl with her many problems she is not in control of. MOM begged in juvenile court to have daughter placed in rehab/camp for children with these issues. Mom even wrote DR. PHIL months before this story broke to help find somewhere that could help her daughter in her manipulative issues popping up. CPS instead enabled her dysfunction and dumps her out of their system anyway they can. They did not know WHAT to do with her and her patterns of sabatoging her home life. That is, they dump her into the hands of the very father she accused at age 3. He who by choice, remained completely absent from her for 13 years. Not a peep out of him! Why silent, if he did not do it? He did not work it out with the requirements to see her and visit her EVER! Only he can answer that. And so we hear he has a big exuse now, he's a minister?! Let's ALL do a polygraph together as a family! So every single person in this psychodrama can be accountable for their part.

We believe that a polygraph test should be mandatory for all involved. Every person in our story who played a part. The accusers. The accused. At best some dishonest and lying CPS/Detectives should initiate this before taking the ball and running with it in the future. Then they wouldn't have to frame innocent folks! This could have saved the STATE a million $$. What about these criminal cases where it is not true? There are many people in prison who are innocent so we find out now. The Innocence Project and others have these stories in the news all the time now setting the prisoners free after years of being in prison due to a sham trial. All because of a failure to investigate, a lousy defense and zealous prosecutors who need to meet their quota with a big case and a WIN for their resume.

We stand fast for the truth to surface with the HOPE our story can touch the world and change lives and legislation someday. Mostly we stand for the truth to come forth so that the sick may be healed. For help to come for the lost and hurting in our story. For relationships to be restored in wholeness and truth and love. Vindication for the wrongfully accused. That is the point. That is why we share our story here with the world. The story never made known to the "jury"!!

Grateful to be Forgiven! Celebrating the Risen Savior!

Part of our own forgiveness and redemption lies in forgiving those who have sinned against US! Suffering evil injustice and betrayal is nothing new under the sun. Jesus Christ was our example in dealing with such things himself! He was misunderstood and denied in His circle and sphere of influence. His hometown did not receive HIM! He was God come to us in the flesh! But people did not believe him or his disciples. They were threatened by His TRUTH and message. They wanted what they wanted instead and did not relent until HE was crucified before their eyes! This brought them temporary and false relief. They failed to recognize WHO they had in their midst. What we understand next is: there is NO rest for the wicked......none!

Sitting in prison for something you DID NOT do and knowing everyone involved knows it can bring hurt and dispair to the normal person. We have chosen to believe instead that with GOD all things are possible. God will work all things for good for those who are in Christ Jesus and trust their lives within HIS hands. He has a bigger plan for health and healing than what we can see at the moment. Jesus had to be put to death for something he did not deserve for there to be NEW LIFE. So if these drastic measures brought something great and wonderful for all of mankind than so can our inconvenience and injustice! It is by the "goodness of God" that men come to repentance with Godly sorrow for their sins. When that happens who knows what God will do next! We are hopeful for something great and miraculous to take place out of this horrible experience. HE knew before we did that we'd be hurled into this unwelcomed journey. Yet, we are still led and sustained by HIS peace in this ordeal. A peace that is not of this world. We hope you know this peace in your soul that we speak of.

We who sit wrongfully accused cling to The Promise of a Lifetime and rest assured that HE will never leave us or forsake us. Visit also our songlist we have for inspiration......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_38RfYrFYA

Sharing our Experience, Strength and Hope

THIS IS A REAL STORY of a wholesome two parent family blown to bits by the story of a mentally disturbed child who suffered sexual abuse at age 3 and what can happen to a family raising a child such as this.

I have loved my girls with only a mother's love and my instincts to protect have been in full force. But what else can we do really but honestly share our experience to help someone else who may be raising a child who was sexually abused at an early age and forewarn what the behaviors are to expect from a child who was damaged by the one who stole their innocence so brutally. Also may our experience alarm the world at the steps that are taken by tax paid state working folks to destroy innocent families and have no regard for the truth or getting these children the proper help they desperately need. FRAMING someone or anyone to make it go well for their promotion or careers. Sacrificing innocent lives in the process. If all it was to take was to love them into wholeness then my special needs girl would be well because that was the home she came from when she chose her own road instead.

She lived in a stable 2 parent family that provided a clean, peaceful and organized home. She loved her MOM and was like bondini to her all the years and then she truly loved her step dad who was kind and active in helping her in different things she needed. At our home, there were bedtimes, meals together and ethic's and morals and structure. Protecting her from unwholesome influences was a full time job! We had a garden, a greenhouse, fresh vegetables and health food. We lived a drug and alcohol free existence all her days in my home since 4 years old. We had faith in God to take care of us. Our grand kids also found our home a peaceful loving haven and came as often as they could. They kept coming back. They each "wished" they could stay and live with us. None was abused at my home ever! Though there were hard years working thru the trauma caused by my daughters abuse as a young child (unfortunately, whom she claimed to all was by her real "daddy B" ) we worked through it and was at a content place in life, happy until we moved near her oldest sister when she was 14. It all began to circle the drain from there. She was hitting puberty and began to do the things the therapists and psychologists warned me she would do. My daughter is emotionally disturbed from her prior abuse and was fulfilling the tendencies these kids have in-born by sexual abuse.

It doesn't matter what the girls did it will never change how much I love them. A mother's love endures all and they will always be at the top of my prayer list. What I learned the hard way was not to allow them to lie and manipulate their way into anything but to confront and challenge and I did and they hated it! When they opened this wicked can of deceipt, they knew not how to stop or undo it so with the help and intimidation and nudging from the powers at be, CPS, detectives who failed to do the proper investigation and then prosecutors who needed a BIG ONE for their resume, our lives were shattered on a set of lies and storytelling =by the girls who could not turn back. They fell into the excitement and drama and attention and entourage they were given as "victims" via lies.

As a mother that was devoted and protective of both my girls influences I knew when it was true and I know when it was not. At age 14 that story of hers was a complete false accusation on me and her step dad whom she really did care about. But off and running the sick and tainted story tellers were allowed full reign and support to do their damage without counting the cost. I was a good mother and my daughters loved me. In their own issues of dysfunction which I refused to "enable" they in anger turned on me and here we lie. Relationship in ruins, betrayal at its fullest and an innocent man in prison framed with "no defense to speak of" because of the little money we had available that paid for the inferior defense we received. No justice was served, there was NO fair trial, the full evidence was not allowed to be seen by the jury and my daughter has yet to be helped as her behaviors have escalated into criminal behavior. In fact she was dumped into the hands of the father who was missing from her life 13 years because he did not challenge the child's charges of sexual abuse. Because it happened in another state he got away with it. I never pursued him or gave it a thought since he was staying away. I truly had enough on my plate than go after him and really I was working through my own issues of forgiving him for what had happened to her. He had refused a polygraph or any supervised visits when she was young and chose himself, his ministry and new wife over a relationship with his daughter. He chose NOT to cooperate with the requirements for visitation posed by CPS back then. But now the all NEW CPS has currently handed her over too him on a silver platter with no questions asked! So now, as his angry and misled wife (who does not know me nor was she present during the ugliness in full bloom!) writes on this blog this week, she claims the ministers innocence all along, yet as a good politician would do 'as his campaign manager' is drag me through some slime to blame me. She's tried to make me look like it was my doing or my karma, my fault he did it or better yet some mystical boyfriend I was evidently having an affair with did it. Well, its very nice to find out what story he must have told his nice family all these years but it's just not true. She has never walked in my shoes one day! It's all right, I understand. I did not want to believe he did it either but it was out of the mouth of "babes". I did not leave my husband for another man. I left the minister because our other daughter had died from cancer, we were both broken and devastated and he was drinking too much and not handling it well and his behavior was scaring me (and his only son living with us!) The son who had to drive him around after he lost his license from alcohol. He was staying out all night then and was scripture whipping me constantly. Counseling was not helping so I moved out into a peaceful little apartment. Only for a couple months. He kept coming to get our daughter for regular visits then she started freaking out in terror to go with him. Begged me not to let her go. He had kept her for 10 days TOO long without a call to me. I was frantic he had kidnapped her. She was never the same girl after that at 3 was able to say the things her "daddy" did to her. That is when I left the state to protect her from further abuse! Now his new wife thinks there was a man in my apartment that did it. Well the "man" was my husbands friend and he had a 2 year old too. We talked some and shared some babysitting but she wasn't afraid of him, only her real father and she knew exactly who her "daddy" was! NOW I know this for sure: that if her father did not do it, he would have personally killed that guy his friend who he thought hurt her without thinking about it! Not save that "alibi" story for 13 years later as an excuse for not seeing his girl for all that time and running off to do the ministry instead! Well, God sees everything. They may deserve each other at this point which shall be interesting. Grace and strength to endure. I am only on the side of truth and healing. All I really care about is that my daughters both make it right and tell the truth. They will never be happy or well until they do. That is a fact. I Love them and pray for their healing and salvation and restoration of our relationship. I will never again play into their sickness and dishonesty. Never, they have become too dangerous. They scare me.

I want everyone in this story to submit to a unbiased polygraph to make it right. Dr Phil can be in charge! Those telling God's truth would have nothing to hide! Would they? Then we could all get on the same page for recovery, healing and honesty.

The sad thing about the real father and his new wife is that today all they can focus on is trashing me as a slut back when this happened or claiming its all about THEM and an attack on their ridiculous "ministry" instead of the horrible injustice and the molestation of his own daughter at age 3 and the scars it has left on her soul and how he abandoned her when he had the chance to make it right. At 17, she is acting out in a criminal way now and though they chose not to be involved in her life 13 years they just had her plopped in their laps recently by CPS with no choice really. They've been given amnesty just to take her off the STATES docket of $$$ responsibilities! They think that is being "vindicated" for the child's accusations as a 3 year old. God is in control. This is not over. He will take all these things and work them for good to those who believe and are wrongly accused and in prison!

Wrongfully Accused? How does this happen?

In our case a system that fails to do it's job. A system full of zealots, a wannabe ROBO COP detective new on the job goes gang busters on a story by a disturbed teen(who was molested at age 3!) who just wanted OUT of her "strict home" and bondage of home rules and structure to go with the local GIRLS GONE WILD! A detective who fails to find any truth to the story by evidence, prior history etc, etc, for 9 months after doing the only thing HE DOES do: BUST down the front door with a SWAT team to search and seize holding the parents to gunpoint to the head shouting CONFESS finding nothing to support the girls claims!! He fails to do his homework, research, joins in cahoots with a corrupt CPS system who never dis-believes the child accusing. A CPS system should be privy to the inappropriate twisted tendencies of a blooming teen who was molested at such a young age! But no! A system blocking EVERY witness testimony who knew the accuser's behaviors since a toddler. Submitting planted computer images (available 1 hour prior to trial) from a computer kept in a mechanic shop. Prosecutors who abuse their power and states resources and busts forward to destroy innocent lives, blocking all testimony that would prove innocence and all for a high profile notoriety case on a subject she(Ms. Prosecutor) maybe biased as to being a victim herself! Seems so by her unprofessional performance in court to manipulate the jury.

Not having $100,000 for your defense on hand to defend false allegations. Instead, you get an attorney who never spends more than 1 hour total time with the wrongfully accused prior to trial. Never hires his own investigator. An older retired attorney who appears confused and unprepared, who does NO CROSS EXAMINATION on prosecutors witnesses. Does not object to all the shanigans, leading questions, prosecutor facing the jury, rolling her eyes and all her body language showing her disdain. Does not bring up to the court all the ridiculous discrepancies in the delusional story. Does not study the facts or brings NO expert witness about anything about the case, ie: computer expert on the recently submitted images, psychologist review of all child's current and past mental conditions or asks each of the defense witnesses the proper questions!!!! Unbelievable. Off to prison because of a kangaroo court stonewalling the truth. A judge who clearly rules entirely for the cute young blonde, fake tan prosecutor who wears a tight short skirt hugging her every curve for the jury!

Again no evidence, no DNA, a simple he said she said! But because there was no $100,000 to spend on the defense it was a slam dunk frame job to cover up a series of mistakes on initial lack of detective work and CPS strong arming to win after being shamed by the doubting juvenile court judge because CPS never did their own investigation. CPS simply did what they always do and that is believe the child no matter what they say!

Right here in small town America where little small town folks paid by BIG tax payers money want to keep their jobs and get BIG recognition in their small town newspaper! What really will matter is: what they got to say to the Almighty one day about all the things they did in secret and what their MOTIVES were!

Number one way this happens is to have false accuser's with emotional disorders with no accountability!
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